Is such a beautiful day today although WINDY. Had some nice time chatting with Jessica.
Told her that people in long term relationship tend to stop pleasing each other after a while and that's bad news. Pleasing should come naturally not as in forced cause if you love someone its automatically you would want to please them.
How did I get this thought? Hahaha. Cause I am going crazy remember?
Anyway, I was having lunch at work the other day and I saw this old couple stop by a table beside me. The wifey sat down and the hubby was standing waiting for the wifey (to go and get the food together). The wifey said, you go and get your food now, I'll get my own later, I want to sit (she sounded really annoyed and tired). Hubby was really uncertain when he walked to the self service counter. I guess hubby can't decide what to eat without the wifey.
Why I thought of couple stop pleasing each other after they've been together for awhile? Just imagine how will that conversation goes if they just started dating. Wifey will most probably say 'darling let's decide together, what do you want to eat honey and bla bla bla' and hubby will most probably say 'sweetheart, do you want me to get you your favourite cheesecake, oh no you are not feeling well today, you just better have chicken soup and bla bla bla.' I know my example sound so cheesy but it happens!
Anyway, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that has to try sooooooo freaking hard to love someone. Do you? I know some people could be new to a relationship or some just doesn't know how to please or apparently SOME is TRYING REALLY HARD but not even a simple gesture during the birthday? How hard can that gesture be? If everything in a relationship is so hard, then just stop breathing!
Its a nice day today. I want to keep my happy thoughts. So gotta go.
Told her that people in long term relationship tend to stop pleasing each other after a while and that's bad news. Pleasing should come naturally not as in forced cause if you love someone its automatically you would want to please them.
How did I get this thought? Hahaha. Cause I am going crazy remember?
Anyway, I was having lunch at work the other day and I saw this old couple stop by a table beside me. The wifey sat down and the hubby was standing waiting for the wifey (to go and get the food together). The wifey said, you go and get your food now, I'll get my own later, I want to sit (she sounded really annoyed and tired). Hubby was really uncertain when he walked to the self service counter. I guess hubby can't decide what to eat without the wifey.
Why I thought of couple stop pleasing each other after they've been together for awhile? Just imagine how will that conversation goes if they just started dating. Wifey will most probably say 'darling let's decide together, what do you want to eat honey and bla bla bla' and hubby will most probably say 'sweetheart, do you want me to get you your favourite cheesecake, oh no you are not feeling well today, you just better have chicken soup and bla bla bla.' I know my example sound so cheesy but it happens!
Anyway, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that has to try sooooooo freaking hard to love someone. Do you? I know some people could be new to a relationship or some just doesn't know how to please or apparently SOME is TRYING REALLY HARD but not even a simple gesture during the birthday? How hard can that gesture be? If everything in a relationship is so hard, then just stop breathing!
Its a nice day today. I want to keep my happy thoughts. So gotta go.
1 puurrr...:
My husband forgot my goddamn birthday once...back in 2006, and I was pissed like hell. When you love someone, it's not all that sweet. Omg, this is so random of me. How are you these days? Are you doing well?
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